You come for a reason, a season or a lifetime ??

People come into our life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.
It is usually to meet a need you have expressed.

They have to come to assist you through a difficulty. To provide you with guidance and support. To aid you physically emotionally or spiritually, they may seems like a God send and they are........

They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvinience time.

This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die,
Sometimes they walk away,
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we must realiZe is that our need has been met our desire fullfilled.

And their work is DONE.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now its time to move on.

Some people come to your life for a season.

Because you turn has come to share grow or learn.

They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.

They may teach you something you have never done.

They usually give you an unbeliveable amount of joy.

Believe it , its real but only for a season.

And the last person is , people come into your life for a lifetime.

Lifetime relationship teach lifetime lessons.

Things you must build upon in order to have solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson , love the person and use in all other relationship and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

Thanks for being a part of my life.

Whether your were a reason, a season or a life.


Love,
S

Before and after

Colorful day

Marriage is fighting

soulmate is not found,it is made,keep on fighting to bcome each other's soulmate

Out of blue

Baby Kai turn ONE

Time flies baby Kai turn to little man. Still remember, i still post bout my pregnancy journal. And now he is turn to little boy.

We celebrate his party with all family member and friends. Kai sooo cranky tat day, maybe to crowded.

So far his development very good, he can interactive with us very well, now he start to learn walking and he is our talkative boy. He loveeeee his koko so much. He love to follow his koko, we call him kai the follower. Heehehe

We're sooo grateful with God grace. Who always take care of KAI. We always pray hope Kai always be a good kid, love God and his parents and siblings, keep in healthy and growth to be a smart boy.

We love u baby KAI

Roti gulung sausage with cheese

Randomness

My boy blast day

On january 5 th was Mike's 6th birthday party! We have been planning his party for weeks. Since he is currently Ninja go obsessed, of course he wanted Ninja go cake. He was imagining that it was going to be a realistics 3D sculpture of Kai ( red ninja go ) and i ordered to my sis in law. And she made it suppaaaaa coooll. Mike love it sooo much.

I organised a kid’s party for a few of Mike's cousin. I prepared all the birthday favor to make it personalized.

For the dessert table, i ordered cookies and cupcakes of ninja go from my step sis. And i made some swrill lollypop marshmallow, personalized chocho bar and milk.

And the goodie bags, i made mug with personalized designed.

Overall the party was really simple and laid-back. But most importantly, my little guy and his cousins had an absolute blast!

Hope it can inspiring u.

Hot hot dog

Have a nice day

Confidential conversation

When I'm waitting for mike doing his private job in the toilet.

We discussing very silly topic.

Mom : mike, do you know , no body can touch your " angry bird " ?

Mike : yes i know mom.

Mom : great...if someone ... ( he interupting me )

Mike : Yes if someone willing to paid, they can touch my "birdy". (He smile very. Big)

Mom : WHAT ?????

Q.u.o.t.e

Ootd : black dress

Ahh i cant use my softlense anymore. Hixxx... Can i said i hate using glasses. But really no choice. Apakah kalian tau using softlense everydayness is not good. Softlense dapat menyerap cairan dalam mata, membuat cornea kita luka dan lecet. Hixxx aku berusaha menghindarinya.. Sebisa mungkin tidak menggunakan softlense. Meski tidak praktis memakai kcamata tapi ya lebih baik mencegah. And here is my latest outfit :

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