Thursday, January 27, 2011

My daily Thoughts : Team work Inspiration

This is a powerful message for our modern society. We seem to have lost our bearing & our sense of direction.

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.He passed the first interview; the director did the last interview. The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?"

The youth answered "none".

The director asked,"Was it your father who paid for your school fees?"

The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees. "

The director asked, "Where did your mother work?"

The youth answered, "My mother worked as laundry woman. "

The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked, "Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?"

The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me. "

The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.”

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the young man. The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that.

It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water. This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee.

The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future. After finishing the cleaning of his mother’s hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother. That night, mother and son talked for a very long time.

Next morning, the youth went to the director's office. The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: "Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered, "I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes"

The Director asked, "Please tell me your feelings."

The youth said:

1. I know now what appreciation is. Without my mother, there would not have been the successful me today.

2. By working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done.

3. I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationships.

The director said, "This is what I am looking for to be my manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired". Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates.Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.

A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put him self first. He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of a person, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more.

If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the children instead?* You can let your children live in a big house, eat a good meal, learn piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please let them experience it. After a meal, let them wash their plates and bowls together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because you do not have money to hire a maid, you want them to understand, no matter how rich their parents are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the mother of that young person.

The most important thing is your children learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and learn how to work with others to get things done.

xoxoxox

Sherlly Wu

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

Quote Of My day : There's always a REASON

"You can hate someone so so bad, you can loathe, you can even swear to never speak again. But at the end of the day, listen to what that person has to say. What will be said might not be right nor acceptable, but a reason is always understandable." - Diana Rikasari

Monday, January 24, 2011

Letting go Part 2

Still remember my past blog bout " I'll let you go " . And yesterday I Read Diana Rikasari blog bout " BREATHE " , And its really INSPIRING me a lot.

In the past I Always think that letting go is the hardest lessons in my life. But after I Throughout the procession of " Letting Go " , is not that hard as I think. I put the concept in my mind to NOT live my life with bring any loaded in my shoulder...just Letting go. In every life there must be a limitations. Limitation to clothes , furniture, Shoes, and People or relationship.

In our life, There will always be things or people, that make us cry, dissapointed , angry, and sad. But let GO.. Let Go of the anger, the grudge, and any intention for revenge. See the bigger picture and other angel of life. Let it GO and Move On....

And I really agree with this sentence. Let go of the people who hurt you, reject you, ignore and underestimate you. They are TOXIC. Its really nice to be a nice people, But its wiser to be wise people. I believe GOD taught us to be nice to people, But GOD never told us to PLEASE everyone we know.

From now on I will letting go people who I know carry a bad influence, and will keep people who bring positive energy for me in any possible way.

Thanks Diana for your Motivation. Im inspiring.. ! :D

Mike Transformation to 4 Yo :D


Mike turns 4 (mike's birthday was actually 2 weeks ago. but i dont have much time to post it ) and as he requested, we had a big party for him and our big Family. During our planning, my husband and I decided that we would have the party at our house. Later on I started to have second thoughts and felt a growing panic over the idea of 20 kids in our house. THe tired phases is when we need to clean up the house. So we decided..have it at KFC near our house. Mike soo happy when he know, we will celebrate his birthday. As The birthday boy requested the theme was TRANSFORMER. So I Choose the Bumble bee birthday cake, and I designed the birthday card and all the goodies bag.


The party was a success! Everyone had a great time. Adults chatted. Kids played. Food was eaten. And my 4 year old finally had his party. Hoorayyy ..But the interested is all the attended follow the dresscode : " PURE IN WHITE " .

[ Hoorayyy... All in white dresscode ]
[ Best dresscode of the dayz..white in tie - Hugo & Hogan ]
[ Mike entertain all the guests by singing TRANSFORMER soundtrack :D ]
[ Proudy daddy and mommy ]

[ cranky & Tired boy ]


[ Wohooo birthday Boy ]


[ Thanks for the cute cookies auntie belle ]


Thanks to all for your kindly attendance and pray for our little demanding boy !

And thanks a lot to Uncle Eric, For you kindly help to take all this precious moment. While Me and hubby was too busy being Miss Social Butterfly and the Hostess with the Mostest. :D

Thank you ..Thank you for the blast dayz. :D

Friday, January 21, 2011

My daily Thoughts : Compromise with your mind and Heart !

I believe any elements of this life: sad, happy, angry , not angry, dissapointed is all in our control. The only one whom responsibility with ourselves is " US / OURSELVES ". No one can distract it. We're happy because we choose to be happy, We are sad because we choose to be sad, And Yes we're crying because we choose to be drown.

So you identify yourself, your thoughts and your feelings. No one else in this world that may affect your LIFE. So always be POSITIVE and stay TRUE with what you're feel.

Xoxoxo,
Sherlly Wu

Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Job Satisfaction !


Working ...ReLax...Find Inspiration...Chill out..Doing Project..
@Pizza Hut

Facebook : MY SHOUT


Random Exsisting Shout status on Facebook : (*sorry some typo using bahasa *)

Sherlly Hubayana ( 19 Jan 2011 )
good morning,all. huaa..the weather so nice ya..very fresh air. So what is ur plan for today ? and have u hug ur kids before leaving ur house or drop them to school?Don't forget to Give a big HUG a day and Keep ur day brighty every day ya. and Ps don't forget to do small thing for this planet "Gak usah plastik deh bungkusnya". :D


Sherlly Hubayana ( 18 Jan 2011 )
ya ampuunn..aku malu (*tutupmata*). masuk salah mobil.mobilnya sama, ada supirnya juga. dikira mobil sendiri.. main masuk aja. Taunya bukaannn..Ya ampun !! Moral of this story : Periksa plat nomor sebelum naik


Sherlly Hubayana ( 18 Jan 2011 )
Im so proud with my hubby Ferdinand Didi Tunggadjaja , eventough last nite got HIGH Fever (39C), and till now still hving Fever and cough. But He still insist go for work & do his presentation to his Principle.Fuuhh !! He teach me bout one thing " Key for success is RESPONSIBILITY & Having Integrity ". Keep your spirit, dad ! After this take some good rest ya at home. We love you , dad !


Sherlly Hubayana ( 16 Jan 2011 )
wow..so crowded ! all people seems so excited for shopping (aka.preparing CNY) Red..red in the eyes.. I love the environment..pull and push. ☺≈нaªhªнaªªнaª=))нaª≈☺ .. Buy ..Buy.. till u drop !!


Sherlly Hubayana ( 16 Jan 2011 )
hai sunday..sunny day..you're so sexy shinning like a hot dancer. woohoo..uumm..still thinking another journey to refreshing and chill out w/ my lil family. for lunch reserve for our belove cousin birthday. Have a great sunny dayz ,all !


Sherlly Hubayana ( 15 Jan 2011 )
‎@Zara-GI,hunting michelle's dress. Big sale. () нннмммм ◦°◦º. harus konsisten, mata gk bole jelalatan, yg gk penting gk usah dibeli (*talking to myself*)

Sherlly Hubayana ( 15 Jan 2011 )
Don't waste a wonderful saturday being flat.. Lift it up..up and up. Today plan bersihin fish tank, shopping for CNY , buy clothes for kiddos, and attend our belove friend wedding "Yana". Woohoo..so much fun !

Sherlly Hubayana ( 13 Jan 2011 )
☺≈нaªhªнaªªнaª=))нaª≈☺ just got this funny quote from my friend (Yvonne ) " kalo mau liat laki2 kaya atau mapan diliat dari penampilan dari istrinya " ☺≈нaªhªнaªªнaª=))нaª≈☺ nice word :D what do u think,friends ?

Sherlly Hubayana ( 13 Jan 2011 )
Today another GREAT & BLESS day. I love being working mom. Butuh ketrampilan managing waktu untuk membuat kehidupan balance dan selaras. ah..hari ini start "FREE COMPLAINING"day. yuk sama2 kita coba campaign kan dlm kehidupan kita sehari2. and here is the tips to start good intention : A good life is when u assume nothing, do more, smile often, dream big & realize how blessed u are for what u have.&STOP Complaining !

Sherlly Hubayana ( 12 Jan 2011 )
I'm just planning, tomorow will be my "FREE complaining" day. Yeap..No complain bout weather,traffic,ppl,job,or even my bad hair.Don't get me wrong, I'm not miss complain. Tp coba perhatikan,dlm sehari pasti ada aja kita complain beberapa hal. "aduh lapar,lelet bgt sih", "internet dodol bgt sih" etc. so I will borrow this few days,to do my mission. Wish me luck,friends. or ada yg mau ikitan juga..Yuukk sama2. :D

Sherlly Hubayana ( 12 Jan 2011 )
Good Morning friends & universe, what is ur planning for today ? wake up in the morning w/ running nose,make me very suffering. but its okay..its an element of life. Now,I'm doing my kids's bento set. Get up,wake up & make up. time for Rise&Shine! Remind ur self, U may not be the best,its NOT important. What important is if U always try ur best. :D

Sherlly Hubayana ( 11 Jan 2011 )
officially sick..bad flu..cough. But still need keep up my spirit. long way to go today..principle visiting aish..rise & shine !! don't let any virus distract ur activities. Hatchii..Hatchi.. :D Good dayz,all !

Sherlly Hubayana ( 9 Jan 2011 )
saia penasaran terpancing jadinya, pengen buka bokep dari BB. kirain sensasionalnya menghebohkan sampe mau di blokir, taunya gk membuat saya sedikitpun orgasme..ah alay kamu,mas !


Sherlly Hubayana ( 8 Jan 2011 )
‎1st week of 2011 passed very fast. try to review with what I have done. Buts seems still nothing.less than 51weeks to go, I need to wisely manage my time. but this week the great happens was celebrate mike bday & our wed anniv with family, and close friends. so greatful..and happy :D ː̗̀☀̤̣̈̇ː̖́†♓☆♌k γ☺µː̗̀☀̤̣̈̇ː̖́ . all. Have a nice great sunday ya & dun 4get Diet Plastik to show ur love for universe !


Sherlly Hubayana ( 8 Jan 2011 )
Confused person dissapoints theirself, their family & friends; wastes their time & wont achieve anything in life.


Sherlly Hubayana ( 8 jan 2011 )
today is our 6th wedding aniversary. Its means a lot for me,much more than another days. Through this passing time, our love still grows. a caring relationship to explore. I'll celebrate my love for u, and cherish u in every way,hubby. Hopefully we can through good and best time forever. Happy 6th wedding day..blast..blast !


Sherlly Hubayana ( 7 Jan 2011 )
‎"selama bendera indonesia masih merah dan putih ,jangan harap pungli dan korupsi akan hilang. Jangan bersikap kaku, harus flexible dalam hal "gesek2 jari" (*apatuh?*)."() нннмммм ◦°◦º Pathetic ! :( susahnya kerja begini !! hah..


Sherlly Hubayana ( 6 Jan 2011 )
Every Morning is always a brand new start, of the day, of the hope, of the story. So begin your day with optimism.i start the day w/ make a bento set,and too bad miss my aerobic class..now I'm ready to face the world. Good morning,My friends ! Mwaaahh :D


Sherlly Hubayana ( 5 Jan 2011 )
As a parent I always remind my self, my duty as a mom is not to keep my childs, but push them out into the Big world so they will grow into a capable adult. Love is important but it won't feed them. So let them go out, make a living,build their own social life and be independent. Jangan batasi pengetahuan & keingin tahuan mereka.Let them explore it and get something bout life. Good nite,parents ! :D

Sherlly Hubayana ( 5 Jan 2011 )
Today My cheecky boy turns 4. Woohoo..wishing u a happy happy happy birthday Mike. Mom & Dad always pray the best for You. Mom wish u can be a good & smart boy, Keep healthy and cheers up,Boy. we love u sooo much ! Blast Blast day today :D
Sherlly Hubayana ( 4 Jan 2011 )
No matter what a woman looks like, if she's confident, she's sexy. By Coco Chanel ! YaaY 10000% agreeee. Buat You..You..cewek2 disana..You're so sexy and beautiful. let's cheers up and keep confident ya :D Have a nice quality time w/ ur fam,gals.

Sherlly Hubayana ( 4Jan 2011 )
Lots of people said "YES" & only excited at the beginning. They dont know follow thru til get best result ! Sungguh di sayangkan ... Ummm ! We will surely succeed if we want to do it consistently.. Make it happen !! Do you agree Ferdinand Didi Tunggadjaja ??

Sherlly Hubayana ( 3 Jan 2011 )
everypeople is unique, no need to make other people feel bad. ☺☺

Sherlly Hubayana ( 2 Jan 2011 )
hai everyone, how is ur holiday ? so much fun ?? I'm sure all of u Have a relaxing and happy holiday. and are you ready for FULL SPEED to achieve ur own Target start by tomorow ?? If U think U had dreamed BIG for 2010 & achieved. Dream BIGGER for 2011.

Sherlly Hubayana ( 1 Jan 2011 )
sedih :( liat sampah dimana2 pasca NYE party. Habit still habit ..

Sherlly Hubayana ( 31 Dec 2010 )
Good Morning Brand New Day 1.1.11. I'm welcoming the new year with the new spirit yet the same person inside. Let's all make a progress,Gain achievements,help more ppl, be a wise parents,let's us reject any neg influence and remain positive and keep humble everyday. YeeHaa..Love u all, Love u Universe :)

Sherlly Hubayana ( 30 Dec 2010 )
Its exciting! I'm so looking forward to 2011. today I've met a passionate people who I'll work closely with.hah..It always great to meet & chat with genius ,positive & passionate people coz its contagious (menular)!

Monday, January 17, 2011

Quote Of My day :

" NO matter where you live, NO matter where you go , NO matter what you've become...Never forget your Roots "

Zara Dress BIG SALE Disc 50% OFF

I'm Sorry, for the lack of posts lately.. I was busy with my own projects, but i promise that more updates are coming! :)

Last week , its my productive days Until I fallen sick. Too excited with our Mission and Project. Me & Hubby feel so blessed, surrounded by RIGHT people, Who can always support us and encourage us to the next level. I really want to share my project with you, But be patient yeahh.. Until all can be settle down ..We will tell you..so just stay tune !! Ahhh.. I really feel so greatfull for this Year, New chapter of my life... (*sound cheesy ya..hihihi*).

Okay..Dont want distrub your brightly dayz..I post this 2 cute ZARA dresses, that I bought for my daugther. 2 weeks again we will celebrate for Chinesse New Year. YaaaY. ..Im so happy. All the family member will gathering together.

Here is the lovely Zara Dress that Im in love. Now ZARA on BIG SALE promo.. Discount Until 50% OFF.



HOUND'S TOOTH PINAFORE DRESS WITH BOWS

idr 300.00 - 500.00 IDR


GATHERED FLOWER PATCH DRESS

IDR 260.00 - IDR 450.00

Totally GORGEOUS rite ?? so what are you waitting for.. Go to your Nearby ZARA shop. And shop till you drop !!

Happy shopping, Mommy :D

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

Indonesia is a beautiful and RICH country.

Indonesia has everything it needs to be rich. It has natural gas, oils, golds, silvers and other precious mining products. Moreover, the nature across the archipelago is so beautiful, many beaches, mountains, lakes, and thousands of distinct cultures and traditions etc. I love & proud being Indonesian !!



I took this pic using my : Olympus PEN camera - No digital processing !
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