I believe any elements of this life: sad, happy, angry , not angry, dissapointed is all in our control. The only one whom responsibility with ourselves is " US / OURSELVES ". No one can distract it. We're happy because we choose to be happy, We are sad because we choose to be sad, And Yes we're crying because we choose to be drown.
So you identify yourself, your thoughts and your feelings. No one else in this world that may affect your LIFE. So always be POSITIVE and stay TRUE with what you're feel.